Out of Order

mohandasgandhi:

stfurapeculture:

I amended the title up there because it was actually incorrect. One in 5 women in this study reported rape. A far greater number reported sexual assault that did not meet the study’s definition of rape. Actual report is here if anyone wants to check it out. It should also be noted this was a telephone survey that only included people 18 and older. Given the high number of victims who are under the age of 18, we can’t view these stats as exhaustive. But they’re important to note anyway.

The study defined rape as “any completed or attempted unwanted vaginal (for women), oral, or anal penetration through the use of physical force (such as being pinned or held down, or by the use of violence) or threats to physically harm and includes times when the victim was drunk, high, drugged, or passed out and unable to consent.” The numbers for men were 1 in 71 reporting rape.

The study also captured:

  • Sexual coercion (defined as ‘unwanted sexual penetration that occurs after a person is pressured in a nonphysical way’);
  • Unwanted sexual contact (defined as unwanted sexual experiences involving touch but not sexual penetration, such as being kissed in a sexual way, or having sexual body parts fondled or grabbed); and
  • Non-contact (defined as unwanted experiences that do not involve any touching or penetration, including someone exposing their sexual body parts, flashing, or masturbating in front of the victim, someone making a victim show his or her body parts, someone making a victim look at or participate in sexual photos or movies, or someone harassing the victim in a public place in a way that made the victim feel unsafe).

Once you consider what fell outside of the study’s definition of rape, nearly half of the women surveyed (44.6%) and 1 in 5 men (22.2%) reported experiencing sexual violence victimization other than rape at some point in their lives.

And who are the rapists?

More than half of female victims of rape (51.1%) reported that at least one perpetrator was a current or former intimate partner. Four out of 10 of female victims (40.8%) reported being raped by an acquaintance. Approximately 1 in 8 female victims (12.5%) reported being raped by a family member, and 2.5% by a person in a position of authority. About 1 in 7 female victims (13.8%) reported being raped by a stranger.

So, that’s less than 14% of rapes being committed by strangers. And we blame survivors for their rapes… why exactly?

This is important. Read this.

Something else that needs to be paid more attention.

witcheslivelonger:

“Police gather a group of detained Indonesian punks at a police school in Aceh Besar in Aceh province. Sharia police are “morally rehabilitating” more than 60 young punk rock fans, saying the youths tarnish the province’s staunch Islamic image. After being arrested at a punk rock concert in the provincial capital Banda Aceh Saturday night, 59 male and five female punk rock fans have been forced to have their hair cut, bathe in a lake, change clothes and pray.”
Please look into showing solidarity in anyway possible, this is a depraved reality that should not continue in silence. I would be devastated if some tyrannical asshole shaved my beautiful mohawk then disposed of my beloved band shirts. Fuck that. 

Not that anybody hasn’t seen this yet, but might as well keep it in circulation.

witcheslivelonger:

“Police gather a group of detained Indonesian punks at a police school in Aceh Besar in Aceh province. Sharia police are “morally rehabilitating” more than 60 young punk rock fans, saying the youths tarnish the province’s staunch Islamic image. After being arrested at a punk rock concert in the provincial capital Banda Aceh Saturday night, 59 male and five female punk rock fans have been forced to have their hair cut, bathe in a lake, change clothes and pray.”

Please look into showing solidarity in anyway possible, this is a depraved reality that should not continue in silence. I would be devastated if some tyrannical asshole shaved my beautiful mohawk then disposed of my beloved band shirts. Fuck that. 

Not that anybody hasn’t seen this yet, but might as well keep it in circulation.

Pyhäkoulu - st 12” (by Allubix)

For NAUREN, as always

Musta Paraati - Olet Kuva (by Jontzzuu)
So then I decided to continue on my melancholy musical journey with this.

Nauren, as always , this is for you.

I listened to this today to feel happy, but as it turns out, it can be quite devastating when you’re a bit hormonal. I wept when I got to a Chelsea solo. So you can imagine how distraught I was at the sad piano interludes.. Life’s hard (Yes I know that’s a different Japanese band). Tumblr is still for posting punk-world problems, right?

I listened to this today to feel happy, but as it turns out, it can be quite devastating when you’re a bit hormonal. I wept when I got to a Chelsea solo. So you can imagine how distraught I was at the sad piano interludes.. Life’s hard (Yes I know that’s a different Japanese band). Tumblr is still for posting punk-world problems, right?

hexenacht:

Sakevi’s coffee table 

Hmm.. I envisioned it with a chainsaw or some kind of knife.

hexenacht:

Sakevi’s coffee table 

Hmm.. I envisioned it with a chainsaw or some kind of knife.

Yay I’m thankful for stuff today. I’m glad there are first world holidays that encourage you to be gracious one day out of the year and feast in celebration of said holidays. I usually don’t know when and what to be thankful for or eat delicious foods because life’s so incredibly hard in the first world. Not to mention how appetizing the history of this happy holiday is. Mmmm.

That said.. I would enjoy some mashed potatoes but I’d “settle” for a bag of these (see above).

Yay I’m thankful for stuff today. I’m glad there are first world holidays that encourage you to be gracious one day out of the year and feast in celebration of said holidays. I usually don’t know when and what to be thankful for or eat delicious foods because life’s so incredibly hard in the first world. Not to mention how appetizing the history of this happy holiday is. Mmmm.

That said.. I would enjoy some mashed potatoes but I’d “settle” for a bag of these (see above).

witcheslivelonger:

shit’s real

witcheslivelonger:

shit’s real

I wanna knit and eat chocolate and drink wine/tea accompanied by some carefully picked tunes via radiowolftown. But it’s 6am and I should really go to sleep..

The mole between my nasty toes has gotten bigger.. This is probably a bad thing. Don’t tell my mom. Nay, this is for you since you love my gross ass feet.
I’m listening to Portishead “Third”. Sometimes I like it. Sometimes I don’t.

The mole between my nasty toes has gotten bigger.. This is probably a bad thing. Don’t tell my mom. Nay, this is for you since you love my gross ass feet.
I’m listening to Portishead “Third”. Sometimes I like it. Sometimes I don’t.